Month: January 2011

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Full Wolf Moon

By Tara Sutphen

 
 

The Wolf Moon is at 29* Cancer will culminate January 19, 2011 1:22pm pst/ 4:22pm est (almanac) This is a time to be nestled in for winter, bringing our consciousness toward our loved ones, family and the home. As humans we often concentrate on being unreasonable, and we can’t seem to remove the blinders or take the time to hear others. We forget it’s a conscious choice to live a beautiful life and that it is ours by birthright.

Yourself: Our thoughts can predominate in an area of looking inward or outside ourselves. With inward thinking, either you are building a perfect human by creating love, happiness, wisdom, solutions and good judgment or you’re downgrading to being mean to yourself, spiraling toward worm status. Worm status is when you think of yourself as lowly and not deserving. You could even be berating and calling yourself or others bad names, lowering your self esteem even further. Recognize the time is now never tomorrow to build yourself. You may not be able to turn behavior, reaction or proactive overnight, but it will all be worth taking the necessary steps to try. And if you need help, there are lots of articles to read for inspiration and tips and maybe you need to start talking to a neutral therapist, a guidance counselor or wise relative. Learn to create smooth relationships and peacefulness. Your home life should be a haven. Work life is goals and competitiveness. All areas of your life should bring fulfillment.

Parents: All parents should take time to “listen” to their children at any age. If they feel you are not listening to them, they sometimes try to entertain you or act out dangerously or rudely. Gently remind them to be safe and use common sense. Know when you are giving them too much advice or being too playful. If you are an imbiber know that all drugs and alcohol do not lead to the palace of wisdom, many times you teach your kids not only to be scared of you but also to be fearful of life. We all have problems, seek solutions. Sometimes chaos has ensued and parents grapple for control, no matter the age of said child, it takes time to re-establish peace and order, persevere and it can happen. You are a parent living up to your thoughts of what parenthood should be. You will always be a parent once you are one. Welcome to real life. Remember parents never give up, they rest a little or find help but you never give up hope and the promises you envisioned when your children were born.

Children: No matter the age, children need to find wonderful possibilities in the world. Playing and bantering are expressions of the interaction they’re creating for the future. Parents, teachers, friends and foes will help them find ways to find support and become individuals. When you feel their pent up energy guide them toward something constructive, so they easily find their way toward education, exercise, inspiration, laughter, curiosity and self expression. Allow grandiose excitement at times and moments of silence and pondering, it allows for healthy living. Be kind to your children for they grow far too fast. Sadly we hear our forefathers speak of their children often growing up not to fulfill their expectations and children aren’t in sync with the parent’s ideas or ways of thinking. We must remember not to live in a small realm, children are born of the big world with all the trends of their tomorrow. They ready themselves for their lifestyles and the future. It is not for us to question, but to embrace. If they are in trouble, we gently lead them back to safety. And that goes for children taking care of their parents too…lead them back to safety.

Lovers/Spouses: To be Loved you must be Loving……..Keep at it. We are a part of a big plan, not everything goes smoothly but we must have faith and hope. Love is always the answer.

 

 Journal Questions:

How are you as a lover?

 • Physical level

• Emotional level

• Intellectual level

 • Spiritual level

Are you happy with your parents? Why and Why not?

• Happiness
  
• Wholesomeness
  
• Contentedness
  
• Money
  
• Love
  
• Family
  
• Friends
  
• Awareness
  
• Wisdom
  

  Are you happy with your children? Why and Why not?
  

•  Happiness
  
• Wholesomeness
  
• Contentedness
  
• Money
  
• Love
  
• Family
  
• Friends
  
• Awareness
  
• Wisdom
  

   Explain your emotional needs with this list:
  

  • Parents
  

  • Children
  

  • Lovers
  

  • Spouses
  

  • Friendships
  

  • People
  

  • Places
  

  • Career Choices
  

   

• Explain your parent’s emotional needs?
  

  • Their Parents
  

  • Children
  

  • Lovers
  

  • Spouses
  

  • Friendships
  

  • People
  

  • Places
  

  • Career Choices
  

    Explain your children’s needs of time and attention with this list:
  

• • GrandParents
  

  • You
  

  • Lovers
  

  • Spouses
  

  • Friendships
  

  • People
  

  • Places
  

  • Career Choices

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   What is your parents expectation of you regarding them or your children:
  

•   • Your Parents
  

  • Your Children
  

  • Lovers
  

  • Spouses
  

  • Friendships
  

  • People
  

  • Places
  

  • Career Choices
  

   Write a few sentences to analyze these questions:
  

• What fears do your parents have for you?
  
• What fears do your children have for you?
  
• What fears do you have for your parents
  
• What fears do you have for your children
  
• What fears do you have for you
  
• Do you live up to your parents expectations
  
• Do you exceed your parents expectations
  
• Were you parents angry with their parents
  
• Were your parents angry with their lives
  
• Why and which one and how?
  
• What solutions were made then?
  
• What solutions are made now?
  
• What solutions do you propose to make with your kids?
  
• Do you take into consideration their futures?
  
• What do you access the future will be like?
  
• Will technology grow?
  
• Will technology fail?
  
• What kind of future are you instilling within your children’s psyche?
  
• Do you believe the world will end?
  
• Or you only worried about how you will make out and not how your children or parents will?
  
• What do you worry about?
  
• Why?
  
• What is your greatest fear?
  
• What do you think are your silliest fears?
  
• How can you control the future?
  
• Are you putting that plan into motion?
  
• Are you stalling out?
  
• Are you in frozen mode?
  
• Are you waiting for things to happen to you instead of you making things happen?
  
• Do you have a fun time with your family?
  
• Make a small plan to implement a daily mantra of conscious contentment with the family you’ve chosen.
  
• If your biological family doesn’t match your ideal, you must create a family. With either your own family or family of friends.
  
• Do not allow pride to get in the way of love, do you do this?
  

   Behavior with your family & relatives:
  

• What is the style of communication
  
• Are they aware of your feelings
  
• Are you aware of their feelings
  
• What is the compromise
  
• Resolution
  

   

  Memories sit within our hearts and souls, make sure to try and make the best of everyday. Hug those you love…

• “Man seeks joy in far off places and peace in quiet spots; but the spring of joy is in his heart. the haven of peace is in himself. Even when he walks on the moon, man has to take with him, his fears, his anxieties, his prejudices and his pet aversions.”
  ~Sri Sathya Sai Baba (Indian Spiritual leader, b.1926)
  

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Astrology: Sun Sign change
By Tara Sutphen

Ami asked me to explain the new sun signs change, as it is confusing her….Tara’s answer: When you are born your mathematics of your astrology are set…no matter what system of astrology that you decide to have for a reading. I use Western & Eastern Astrology combined. Some of the Ephemeris may be off for a progression, and isn’t readable unless you are an Astrology student. The Astrology computer software companies calculate to the new mathematics w. updates. It really only affects the children born of tomorrow, readjusting the few degrees of the poles light arc from the sun and how it is calculated to the tropics and different latitude and longitude points, etc. That astronomer who muddied waters doesn’t follow astrology, he follows space and it’s phenomena. And…that’s wonderful. As we reach further into space some Astrology and it’s math need to be adjusted. They are also saying it’s 13 signs now, but the Julian/Gregorian Calendar made it 12. Asia & Middle East were never on the Western Calendar system…they may have adapted….bottom line…we look at the fun of new discoveries and see if they mean anything to us. As an Esoteric Astrologer I’m a reader of mathematics, the names of things mean nothing – the calculations are everything. I look forward to the research 🙂 I hope this helps.

XO Tara XO

As the great Astrologer Terry Nazon says….Real Astronomers wouldn’t concern themselves w/Sidereal Astrology they would try to discover new planets, stars & life on other planets.

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13* Capricorn New Moon

By Tara Sutphen

 
 

13* Capricorn New Moon with partial eclipse (no moon – starry dark sky, the time of dreaming), culminating January 4, 2011. This Capricorn New Moon is about clarity. What’s on your mind that you can speak directly and clearly, with a level head. Capricorn is about calculation, capability and proficiency. It’s not about what you’d like to do, it’s about what you can and will do. How you achieve in the world and where you belong. There is no fanciful dancing in sugar fluff fields when Capricorn is in charge. And this moon is about speaking what you need and why you need it. It’s not about what your family needs, lovers want or communicating with other people. It’s about “you” and what you possess in daily abilities and survival instinct. Taking the time to learn who you are in the world and making a better place for yourself. You have a pretty good idea what hasn’t worked in the past and must be assessed. This is grounded thought and speaking, not fanciful ideas on flitting from job to job, or changing careers every ten minutes. How do you secure your life, making money and managing time. What are your upcoming plans on a very mundane and daily level. What is your role in your job or career. What are your skills. It can be as easy as cooperation, organizing or having a strong energy current. Sometimes we try to do everything and we can’t figure what is our cleverness or uniqueness. We can be blind to what we excel in and recognizing ability.

Your mind may shift from clear thought to a next sequence of escape and self sabotage. Are you in an anxious or fretful state, not remembering how to get from A to B to C. Do you write out lists and decisions, do you talk over game plan with friends or family. Are you someone who thinks of a schedule and can carry it out or do you go into a spin of what to do and why. Trouble with your tasks at hand, not being able to focus can mean you are spending too much time multi-tasking, not relaxing, not sleeping, not getting enough nutrition, not following through on details, excess weight, stagnation or boredom. Unless you have been physically ill, and need to organize your time to best heal. Do you start projects but can’t finish or witness someone close to you experiencing continual ungrounded behavior and habits.

Getting your thoughts straight, priorities on track, and your voice and speaking ability clearly stating your necessities and creating life in your home and work space. Every day should be productive on some level. You ate nutritionally, you spoke well, you moved your body around, or you smiled. You took time to recognize your abilities, they can stem from handiness to mastery.

 

Journal Questions:

What area of labor are your skills:

• Physical labor
  
• Mental labor
  
• Intellectual labor
  
• Spiritual labor
  

Have you fallen into your job or did you plan a career?

• Jobs you do well
  
• Hobbies you do well
  
• Tasks you do well
  
• Career you have
  
• Career you want
  
• What kind of bridging do you create to get from one to another position
  
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The Worker – You

Describe yourself in your job or career

• List all your extroverted qualities
  
• List all your introverted qualities
  
• Where are you shy
  
• Where do you lack boundaries
  
• What must you change
  
• What are you good at
  
• How do others perceive you
  
• Are you outgoing
  
• Are you easygoing
  
• Are you helpful
  
• Are you generous
  
• Are you criticizing
  
• Are you fearful
  
• Do you make hasty decisions
  
• Are you spontaneous
  
• Are you reckless
  
• Are you careful
  
• Are you too cautious
  
• What activities do you like
  
• What activities do you love
  
• Do you do them often
  
• What holds you back if not
  
• Are you obsessive
  
• Are you learning and growing
  
• Are you conscious of others feelings
  
• Are you relating well with relatives
  
• Are you relating well with friends
  
• Are you relating well in your environment
  
• Are you relating well with others in the world
  
• How do you feel about your home
  
• How do you feel about your environment
  
• How do you feel about the world
  
• Where can you improve
  
• Do you have the energy to actively live life to the fullest
  
• What are the remedies
  

  On the job:
  

• Short attention span
  
• Hard time acknowledging others
  
• Interrupts in a conversation
  
• Changes subject in flow of conversation
  
• Becomes overwhelmed
  
• Distracted easily
  
• Disorganized mentally
  
• Disorganized physically
  
• Fantasizes about change
  

  What brings you a solid foundation and why?
  

• Philosophy
  
• Sociology
  
• Events
  
• Remarks
  
• People
  
• Friends
  
• Politics
  
• Fears
  
• Happiness
  
• Worries
  
• Nature
  
• Hobbies
  
• Children
  
• World events
  
• Solutions of problems
  
• Goals
  
• Money
  
• Shopping
  
• Helpfulness
  
• Relatives
  
• Spouse
  
• Lovers
  
• Household chores
  
• Home owning
  
• Renting
  
• Job
  
• Career
  
• Plans
  
• Vacations
  
• Nutrition
  
• Socializing
  
• Parties
  
• Destinations
  

   

  Focusing is one of the ways to gain a clearer perspective. Becoming thoughtful rather than obsessive, responsive rather than heedless, rational rather than reactive – allowing space for thought and perseverance.
  

   

  “Real life is, to most men, a long second-best, a perpetual compromise between the ideal and the possible; but the world of pure reason knows no compromise, no practical limitations, no barrier to the creative activity.”
  

  ~Bertrand Russell (English Logician and Philosopher 1872-1970)