Full Cold Moon

Full Cold Moon

By Tara Sutphen

The Full Cold Moon (Native American) at 19* Gemini will culminate, December 11, 2019 9:12pm PDT/December 12, 2019 12:12am EDT (Farmers Almanac).

This Full Moon indicates to find vibrancy again in your life. Open your eyes and take in all the good. As a human we have to readjust and allow ourselves to be shining brightly. No need to be in deep judgment. Formalize a youthful spirit by being spontaneous, breathing some fresh air, putting your smile on, adding style in your step and increase a heaping dose of friendliness. Taking life thoughtfully includes balancing our outlook and inner satiation. Looking at the redeeming qualities of everything instead of holding disdain. We all know we can get stuck going round and round about a problem or becoming broken hearted when someone has unsettled us.

Being vulnerable is understandable but we have to learn to let go of these experiences as fast as possible. We have things to do and a life to live, and the bottom line is paying attention and gaining a perspective to our future. We do this by working in an acceptable way, noticing our family and friends and treating them with care, sentimentality and fascination, and being accountable to our actions. We want to hold on to a certain way of life, and sometimes that doesn’t seem possible. Change is inevitable. Even with a lot of communication sometimes, there can be feelings not met and people tend not to articulate well or leave unexpectedly. Everyone identifies with rejection, personal mistakes, awkward and bad choices, while these situations are our toughest moments, we can recover and proceed. We are never to fall into despair. If we need support, there are people in positions to help. No one ever said life was easy, but it’s worth it. We can re-learn to enjoy ourselves with other humans. Really click in to appreciate yourself first and foremost. Stop setting yourself aside.

We don’t have to over-socialize or party every hour of our free time or during the holidays. We aren’t supposed to turn ourselves on to one group and not another; we are to be radiating with life-force, instilling some pizzazz, being consistent in our feelings, and being a little more curious about the people surrounding us in any situation. Everyone needs a pick me up, and we need to be present and interested. Most likely we can put away our phones and really listen to others, make eye contact and ask questions. We all know some people need to talk a lot and your objective may be to tune in, but give yourself some center stage time as well.

There are many different ways to start a conversation, one way is to discover common interests. When engaging, make effort to hear their stories or observations. It’s never a waste of time to make someone else’s day enjoyable. If someone wants to help fix your problems, always be open to good advice and solutions and don’t be afraid to reciprocate and offer your good recommendations.

Here’s some tips on how to be more inviting and relevant:

1. You are confident yet friendly

2. Matching a similar social tone

3. You observe yourself, but you’re not self conscious only respectful

4. Be polite

5. In an unflattering situation allow it to lead to laughter or understanding

6. Don’t put down others or fight

7. Share tips and remedies of any skill

8. Look others in the eye to acknowledge them

9. Don’t talk at people, converse with them

10. give & take speaking

11. Passing the *waiter test

12. It’s not a contest to see who is smarter

13. Say meaningful words

14. Drop the defensive shield

15. Be Polite

16. Listening

17. Not judging

18. Be helpful

19. Trust where you’re supposed to be

20. Enjoy the people you are surrounding yourself

21. Sincerity

22. Sharing

*waiter test – ones true character is revealed when being served by others

Everyone knows what’s wrong to do…bad habits, addictions, procrastination or rebelliousness. Bad tempers or isolation, release misfortune and start by being resourceful, capable and enterprising. Learning to listen again. Drinking plenty of water, and meditate. Resonating with the earth and expecting the very best instead of the very worst.

Journal Questions:

Write down something favorite about each topic :

• yourself

• others

• Family

• Friends

• Work arena

• Neighborhood

• City

• State

• Country

• World

Are you seen as Contructive or Destructive?

• House

• Love

• Family

• Parents

• Mate

• Children

Where are you charismatic:

• Love

• Career

• Job

• Health

• Relationships

• Friendships

• Happiness

• Exercise

How can you be more connected in your personal life or work life: List 3 things if not 3 sentences

• Love

• Career

• Job

• Health

• Relationships

• Friendships

• Happiness

• Exercise

 Your Aspirations:

• Spiritually

• Emotionally

• Intellectually

• Materially

• Physically

What Inspires you:

(5 sentences or more)

Who Inspires you:

(5 people and why)

Are you needing to change a few things about yourself

Write down how you’d like to change.

———-Shine in the world. Don’t feel alone or lonely, there are millions of people who feel separate or desolate. We all deserve great things in life. Don’t feel overwhelmed by too many people or problems, know there is a solution about everything. We don’t always know how to solve those problems, but help is around the corner, inner-strength can be renewed, hardships are overcome everyday.

The first step is your mind is in synch with your conversations that match your actions. When you succeed to align this, you will notice your life works in miraculous ways. You must trust the process, no matter if your life is moving as slow as a turtle or as fast as a hare. It’s our present moment that counts and how you conduct yourself each and every moment. It’s important, Make an effort to encourage and inspire others. Encouragement is useful. Reassuring another person of the effort they make, not only makes them feel validated but it also makes you feel satisfied.

—— “I have yet to find the man, however exalted his station, who did not do better work and put forth greater effort under a spirit of approval than under a spirit of criticism.”

–Charles Schwab

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Friendships

Friendships

By Tara Sutphen

Friendships can be a meeting of souls, where we are mysteriously drawn together and the connection is cosmic. Many of us don’t get a lot of time with people we enjoy, but it only means we are on individual earth journeys. Camaraderie is constructive in building our character. The building blocks of life, whether it be your siblings, family or friends, the more you value others, they in turn will appreciate you. 

Sometimes no matter how we try, we’re not acknowledged by another. These are shamanic signs to discern unconditional love from conditional expectations. Not everyone can stay near to each other. We can learn from others and move on about our daily schedules. We all want the worthwhile friendships, easy connections and a contentment we didn’t know existed.

Attaching emotionally or intellectually is usually more than being mere acquaintances. Sometimes you’re interested in the same hobbies or just open to life experiences. The path of friendship, we don’t always know where we are going, there can be duality and decisions regarding people. What makes a right or wrong decision. Do we take a chance for others to enrich our lives. There is a big difference of possession and helpfulness, it’s better to openly share so that life becomes rich and unsorted. It can be quality vs quantity. We are too brighten each others day, we are to guide our friends in life. If you are a true friend, you never put that person in jeopardy. In the real world, safety is key.

And then there are the ones who would do anything to save you, even from your self. But what do you do to protect your relatives and allies. How do you keep them non-toxic and out of harms way. This can be physical recklessness to disregard, to wounding words to selfish behavior. We can easily misunderstand, just as others can easily misinterpret us. Where did a bond unravel, we do hear stories of close friends ending badly. Why wouldn’t your consistency hold another in place. Were they never a friend, or was it you. Do you hold a reliable pattern. What constitutes worthy friendship. How do we go the extra mile. Whether it is an emotional or intellectual bond. Whether we meant to include others or not. Maybe we can come to understand the basics of companionship. After all, many people just light up your life for no reason at all, and shouldn’t it stay that way.

Journal Questions:

Do you see yourself as a good friend?

What do you believe are your strengths and weakness’ in friendship?

Recognition of Friendship: 

How to Make Friends –

  • Be a Good Listener
  • Be Friendly
  • Commonalities
  • Cooperation
  • Caring
  • Helpfulness
  • Support
  • Laughing
  • Staying a friend through bad events and good times
  • Being vulnerable
  • Offering advice
  • Taking advice
  • Encouragement
  • Problem Solving
  • Deep Conversations 
  • Easy and light observations
  • Loyalty
  • Betterment
  • Understanding
  • Motivate
  • Empathize 
  • Constructive Criticism
  • Building self-esteem
  • Solution
  • Decision
  • Importance
  • Cherish

—-To Have Friends you must be a Friend, nothing is ever perfect but friends should be a calming voice in any storm, a hand to hold when scared or ill, laughter a-wild, and a beacon of hopefulness. The earth revolves around humans and it’s fitting to put our best foot forward. Sometimes we’re led to learn things so we meet our future and the appropriate people for our personal community.

——-“A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.” -William Shakespeare

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